My name is Vernita, born January 30, 1993. I’m reaching out about a man named Chris, born February 1, 1976. We’ve had an intense and emotionally complicated connection for two years — sometimes - question #8035

Vernita the energy from that night feels unmistakably charged, like a door half‑open that he couldn’t quite walk through. When Chris said he “forgot,” what I sense is that he didn’t forget at all; he pulled back at the very last second because his feelings were stronger than he expected.It feels like what he wanted to ask was something that would have exposed the depth of his attachment — perhaps “Where do you see this going?” or “Do you really feel the same way I do?” There’s tenderness and fear in that moment, a sense that he was right on the edge of confessing something real but couldn’t manage the vulnerability.Even now, his energy still circles that question. He hasn’t stopped wondering about the connection, but he’s cautious worried that opening up might change everything. The truth beneath it is this: his feelings for you were, and still are, genuine. He just didn’t yet know how to make them safe enough to speak

Then  Chris wanted to ask you about you and him, about the feelings and energies between you specifically of an intimate nature .About love ,about true love. About something deep that could be between you, where there is only you and  him.These are not fears.This is  something that the man himself understands,where he  is the man and you are thenwoman.And he is the boss there.