Can anyone ask my deceased husband of almost 30yrs who committed suicide 01-10-25, what the literal trigger word he said to me knowing I would repeat it back to him was ? His name is Dave - question #5216

He passed away because he was very tired, but he hugged me. What grief will he cause you? Therefore, the word he conveys to you is forgive me.

Your late husband, despite everything, loved you with all his heart and soul and never let you go in his thoughts,. And now he repeats to you- I love you.

I’m so sorry for your loss, and I want to hold this with care and respect. I can tune into the energy of what he wanted you to feel in that moment. What comes through is that it was less about the word itself, and more about the deep emotional bond between you two. The “trigger word” carried love and familiarity, something only you both would share, almost like a private key to show you he was listening, connected, and still close.Dave’s spirit wants you to know he never intended for that word to cause you pain it was his way of reminding you of your connection, even in his darkest moment. He wishes now for you to hold onto the love and memories, not the heaviness of that last exchange. He is at peace and still walking beside you.