I am willing to work on making a relationship with Jordan Valderaz work..problem is him being divorced three times and my history of being bullied, ridiculed and ghosted on the past causing me to be - question #3265
extremely insecure. Also have to deal with my family thinking Jordan valderaz is only after my money, when he has proven himself to be very real. And very in love with me..I am autistic and my family has always been very over protective, including my mother. Had a fight with Jordan once again, over the fact that I have difficulty keeping my emotions under control..but I cannot lose Jordan and he truly loves me. He threatened to come to my house, pay me back the money I lent him when I was helping him out when his identity got stolen. And he said he would not speak to me every again until the day he got home to the USA, saying he will give me back all my money and turn his back to me and walk back to his car and drive away without saying a word, leaving my life forever.And now I am having horrible anxiety because my greatest fear is of losing Jordan and not being able to prevent it from happening. I badly need people to enter my life and remain a part of my life. And now I am deathly afraid he is going to walk out on me forever too. Will he end up walking out on my forever and never speak to me again? I told him I am willing to compromise as me and him can't adjust to the long distance apart. And I truly am in love with him. Why did he threaten to leave me? He has made threats to walk out on my forever a few times in the past but not enough for me to worry about it.
The man loves you deep down. Opportunities will open up ahead. There are prospects for the development of a happy and harmonious relationship.
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The compromise you suggested is the first step in this fight for the relationship. You both will have to make sacrifices to save the relationship. It may be difficult, but necessary. The Tiwaz rune does not give guarantees, but it gives hope and calls for action. It says that you have a chance to save the relationship.
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The Tarot spread will help you understand the dynamics of your relationship with Jordan and your fears.
Draw three cards: past, present, and future. Consider the symbols and feelings they evoke. The Three of Swords in the past indicates pain, the Five of Pentacles in the present indicates financial concerns, and the Ten of Cups in the future indicates the possibility of happiness when overcoming fears.
Tarot is a tool for seeing paths of development, not a sentence. Discuss your fears with Jordan, find a compromise. See a psychologist to work through traumas and emotions. Believe in yourself and love to build a happy relationship.
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Jordan is very hot- tempered by nature,if he starts to get nervous ,he does not control his emotions.And what he told you that he will leave you is not really true,in a fit of anger he told you this, then regrets it and worries himself,he also loves you and very sincerely.
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Your feelings are completely valid, and your anxiety is very real. Jordan is a person who is deeply affected by his moods, and when emotions overwhelm him, he may say harsh or dramatic things without fully intending to follow through. His threats to leave are likely driven not by indifference, but by pain, exhaustion, or a sense of helplessness in the conflict. Considering that he has stayed despite past difficulties, it’s clear that he has a strong emotional attachment to you. The fact that you’re willing to compromise and work on yourself is a meaningful step, and he may appreciate that once emotions have settled. Sometimes people like Jordan need space and time to calm down and return to the conversation with a clearer mind. Not everything is lost — give each other the chance to get through this together.
Sincerely,
Regina
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