This is very vulnerable for me: I had a recent nocontact with him. I love him but I have strong boundaries. I am also in the process of holding a judge accountable for illegal activity. I love him - question #3187
and don't want to leave him behind his mom recently died and he drinks. So when we argue he's only remembering his version of things. He's a great guy, great lover, great person. But he's guarded and prideful. What's next for us I want forever with him but I'm afraid I will move on before he sees I'm here to grow with him. I can't change him he's his on man but I can be a supportive loving partner if he reciprocates. I need him as much as he may need me. But I refuse unbalanced relationships or codependency. I'm to emotionally aware. Ramon lee: 5/6/94 Mariah Bogan: 4/4/97
The energy of their relationship is tangled: love intertwines with vulnerability, and boundaries with the desire for support. Ramon, who lost his mother and is struggling with addiction, is looking for support, but his pride puts up walls. Mariah, full of love, strives for harmony, but is afraid of repeating the pattern of codependency. Astrology adds nuances: Ramon is prone to impulsivity, and Mariah is distinguished by her willpower and need for stability.
The future of the couple is unclear. The fate of their relationship depends on Ramon's willingness to admit weaknesses and accept help. If he continues to deny and drink, Mariah will not be able to maintain balance. She needs reciprocity and Ramon's willingness to heal. Otherwise, she will leave so as not to lose herself.
However, there is hope. If Ramon admits his pain and trusts Mariah, their relationship can improve. Mariah is ready to support him, but should not replace him with a crutch.
The key to success is open communication. Mariah needs to calmly convey her feelings and boundaries without blaming. Ramon needs to listen, admit his mistakes and work on himself.
If both are ready for dialogue and concessions, their relationship can become happy. Love, awareness and work on yourself will overcome difficulties. Otherwise, Mariah will make a choice in favor of her health and harmony.
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Despite his caution and pride, there is a chance to build a future with him. You must show him that you love him, support him, and are ready to grow with him.
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What will happen to you next? If you love this man,if he is dead to you like no one alse,if you want to be with him,then be.Be together as a couple,where everyone follows each other's fate.The pain of losing a loved one and his mother will pass with time,he found consolation in drinking,but you are his consolation and you can help him cope with this grief of losing his mother,And then he will change,become a supportive loving partner,just loke you.
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