Because he was offended by his friends in his youth. Now he's not sure of himself, but you can tell him that he's strong and brave and he'll change.
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He had an inferiority complex,he is not good enough for you, but this is not true,and you can help him overcome this complex with your actions towards him.After which he will not feel this way.
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He has an inferiority complex that developed in childhood. He lacks self-confidence and decisiveness in his actions.
Your warm long-term relationship will have a very good result.
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Unfortunately, when feelings and the laws of energy are activated, the mind is not always able to adequately assess the situation and monitor actions.
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The energy of the question is complex: insecurity, fear, and past traumas often make a person say that he «doesn't deserve» you. This is a manifestation of his inner demons, not an objective assessment. He compares himself to an ideal that he has created himself, and loses. This ideal can be imposed by stereotypes or critical perception. It is important to remember that this ideal is subjective.
Your sympathy is natural, but do not go into codependency. Support him by reminding him of his virtues, but remain firm in the belief that he must work on self-esteem himself. Instead of pity, try to understand the root of the problem through open conversation. Create an atmosphere of trust, where he can express fears without judgment. Your faith can be an incentive, but this is his path to self-acceptance.
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At the root of all this is his low self-esteem. He does not see his strengths and focuses on his weaknesses.
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