Eulas kids won't let me back in her life - question #3126

You need to talk about this with Yulas and sit down at the negotiating table,there is. a way out of this situation so that you and Yulas can be together.

Children are not the deciding factor in your relationship. Everything depends on the decision of the Eula.

I can't give a definitive answer to the energy of the question, but I can offer perspectives. Children, protecting their mother, often create a barrier to invasion. This may be a subconscious desire for stability. Imagine that they built a fortress of love around Yula, and the appearance of anyone who threatened this fortress is perceived as a danger.

From a dramatic point of view, conflict creates rich soil for the plot. Children can manipulate, resist, or create situations that prevent rapprochement. Your actions will also affect the dynamics: will you break through the wall or build bridges?

Psychologically, children may be afraid of repeating past mistakes, pain, and disappointments. They may be jealous of their mother and feel that your appearance takes away her attention. It is important to show empathy, understand their fears, and show that you are ready to become a part of their lives.

Children are not a monolithic wall; everyone has their own motives and experiences. The key to success is to build relationships with each individual, taking into account their needs. Show that you are ready to support them and be a friend.

Success depends on your sincere desire, readiness to work on yourself, patience and Yula's will. Try to look at the situation through the eyes of each participant and find a way to harmony.

You know everything yourself. You ask a lot of questions, but you don't seem to want to change and alter your life. But time flies, and opportunities won't be open forever.