Will Jordan Valderaz ever stop talking to me like I am a fellow soldier when I am a civilian? As much as I love him he seems to be awfully bossy, I know he is trying to get out of West Africa and - question #3077
back to the United States and into my life. But will he ever treat me with respect and stop letting his commanding officer tell me what to do and will he ever stop treating me like I was Goldie Hawn in private Benjamin?
Unfortunately,Jordan is a military man and he has a military upbringing,and it is very difficult for him to be a civilian and calmly conduct a conversation.Perhaps when he gets out of there and is among civilians,he will not behave like that.
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You need to accept him as he is, he is a military man and it is already a force of habit to communicate with you in a commanding voice. When he leaves military service he will become more gentle in communication.
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Military service often creates a certain style of communication and behavior that can be difficult to change, especially in stressful situations. Jordan may be used to a hierarchical structure and a commanding tone, and it will take him time to adapt to civilian life and to relationships where equality and respect are key. But there is a chance.
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You just don’t always manage to understand each other, since everyone is on their own wavelength.
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