The new guy j started talking to and my ex belong to the same friend group. Why were his friends staring so much at me and talking amongst themselves - question #3024
What you don't know..your ex told.tne whole group of friends to which you belong not very pleasant news about you,and the very reason for your breakup with him,thereby speaking badly about you.That's why when you came in,there people started discussing you.
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He told them some story that influenced their opinion of you. Just be yourself and give them time.
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A very interesting situation has developed because both guys are from the same group, this arouses great interest from their friends. They are carefully looking at you, they are interested in how the situation will develop. They are interested in what your ex-boyfriend says about you, they are discussing this.
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You were discussed on the side and gossiped about. Oh, how unlucky you are.
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Entering your ex's circle of friends, especially with a new partner, can be stressful. Your ex's friends may be watching, comparing you to your ex, and assessing the situation, trying to understand the dynamics of your relationship and how they will behave. Their instinct is to protect «their own.»
Don't make excuses or prove anything. Be yourself, act natural. Focus on interacting with the new guy and his friends. The tension will ease over time if they see that you are not a threat.
Your ex may have told their own version of the breakup, or one of your friends may be feeling awkward. Don't dwell on assumptions, be open and respectful. Don't let this situation ruin your joy in your new relationship. Focus on what makes you happy and give them time to warm up to you.
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