What is going on with my ex and his treatment towards me? What is going on with him? Is he doing drugs or us he seeingsomeone and don't want to tell me? - question #2805

Your ex's condition is at its lomit.Unfortunately he is taking drugs now and that's why he is behaving this way  towards you,but heis not dating any other girl.Treats you with sympathy,remembering your past.

Hello. Something is definitely off with him,  you’re not imagining it. I feel a mix of reckless, chaotic energy around him right now. It’s like he’s spiraling in private, trying to hide it under a mask of indifference toward you. Is he doing drugs?Yes. I see substance use around him. Maybe not full addiction yet, but it’s strong enough to cloud his judgment and make him act cold, erratic, and selfish. It’s affecting how he communicates and how unreliable and detached he seems. He's numbing something:  guilt, regret, fear, but doing it the wrong way. Is he seeing someone? There’s someone around him, but it’s shallow and meaningless. It feels more like a distraction or someone who makes no demands on him, not real love. He doesn't want to tell you because deep down, he knows it would hurt you and also because he feels ashamed of how low he’s sinking. His mind right now: He’s running from his own problems. He’s trying to escape guilt and emotional pain through unhealthy ways. He’s pushing you away because you remind him of who he used to be: better, healthier, stronger. Why he treats you the way he does: It’s not because you aren’t important, it’s because he can't face himself, and being around you or even thinking about you triggers that discomfort.

He still needs you, and he would like to return your relationship. But he feels weak, confused, and doesn't know what to do. He doesn't know how you feel about him right now. His mind is clouded, he takes drugs, because of this it is difficult for him to make decisions, and his behavior and consciousness are inadequate. There is no other woman in his life right now.

Questions about your ex bring back echoes of past relationships and incompleteness. After a breakup, there is a vacuum filled with doubts and fears. Suspicions about his new life can be painful. However, it is important to remember your ex’s right to personal space. Focus on yourself and your healing, engage in self-development and new hobbies. If you are concerned about his actions, talk to mutual friends. But remember that you are not responsible for his choices. Accept the end of the relationship and move on, building a happy life.

Unfortunately, your ex chose a destructive form of behavior. This is the case when prohibited substances begin to dominate his thoughts, desires and behavior. He is not dating anyone so he has nothing to tell you.

Your ex is dating multiple girls and actually does drugs. That's his choice.