My friends daughter misty, I think she has a weird hate for me or something. She is really nice and doesn't ever treat me bad or talk bad to me but I still feel like she hates me - question #2775

Hello. What you're sensing is real, but not what you fear: Misty doesn't hate you. The two of you simply exist on very different energetic frequencies. You're like two signals tuned to different stations: no matter how close you stand, something will always feel slightly off. She's polite, respectful, even kind, but her energy doesn't fully open to yours. It's not rejection, it's mismatch. There's no hatred in her, just a quiet distance her soul maintains instinctively.

You are right,and your feelings do not fail you,daughter, your friend Misty hates you..She cannot show it openly,because of her character,but there is a strong energy,and even from the outside it is noticeable,what you feel,a hurricane is raging inside  her.,which can come out at any moment,unexpectedly for you.

Your daughter is struggling between loving and hating you. The world is cruel and life is difficult, so subconsciously she develops hostility towards you because it was you who brought her into the world.

The feeling of hostility may stem from the complex dynamics in the relationship between you, your friend, and her daughter. Children, especially teenagers, may perceive you as a competitor for their mother’s attention or feel that your presence is affecting their relationship.

It is important to consider that children may be hiding their feelings. Perhaps your friend’s daughter is afraid to cross boundaries or is embarrassed to show hostility.

Before jumping to conclusions, analyze your interactions: how often do you spend time together, do you discuss topics that interest her, do you pay enough attention? Try to find common interests to establish a trusting relationship.

Talk to your friend frankly. An open-hearted approach will help you understand the situation. Perhaps she has noticed something similar, too.

Building a good relationship takes time and effort. Show patience and interest in your friend’s daughter, and hostility may be replaced by warmth and friendliness.

Your friend doesn't hate you, you can trust her. She is secretive, but friendly and sincere.