I am staying with a friend, her name is Willma, is she my real true honest friend or is she someone I need to watch out for? For some reason I feel like she is not and she wants me staying with her - question #2613
for her own evil reasons. I hope I'm not right. And if so what should I do? I know get away but what and how soon?
Your friend is s pursuing her own goals.Acts in her direction as it is convenient for Be careful with her.It's up to you to decide what to do next.
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Hello. Willma is not your true, honest friend. She wears a mask of kindness, but underneath, there’s a strong feeling of control, envy, and hidden resentment. She likes having you close because it gives her a sense of power, like she’s doing you a favor you “owe” her for. She may not outright hurt you, but she feeds off knowing you're dependent on her, even if just temporarily. It gives her a twisted sense of superiority. Her «kindness» has a price. It’s subtle now, but if you stay too long, it will become heavier: passive-aggressive comments, guilt-tripping, maybe even using your situation against you later.
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