Rebecca 1999 Feb 14 Hong Kong Michael 1980 Mar 16 Brisbane So he has an 13 years ex long term partner. And they still lived together due to come complicated reasons which I don’t know. He said he - question #1597

is done, but his ex seems not accepting. He said he wants to set back and focus on work now because he feel guilty for his ex, and this make me super upset. He said we are together but he is not ready for relationship and he will supports me. I feel really helpless cus I gave him everything he wants but he couldn’t give me the safety, making me feel like their relationship are not yet done and will relight due to obligation and sense of guilty issues. And all these happened make me be a mattress. I don’t like to be involved in a 3 people relationship, I feel so helpless and sad. What will happened to us? And is that he will keep together with his so-called ex?